Do you feel
maxed out in every direction and wonder if that’s really how God intends it to
be? This series, which began May 11, reveals that it is definitely NOT God’s
intent. We are the ones who push
ourselves to the edge in every facet of life, teetering on the edge of exhaustion
– because of a wrong understanding of our role, guilt, peer pressure, poor
planning etc.
Today I’m going to wrap
up this series on Healthy Margins with some final words on Ministry. If you’ve
missed any posts along the way, I encourage you to take your time to read
through them – especially the scripture. My prayer is they will help you
examine your life from a biblical perspective and see where you need more
breathing space. I am continuing to do the same.
Here are the last
two margins we need in the Ministry aspect of life.
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HOME FIRST
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MESSAGE/METHOD
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SPIRITUAL VITALITY AND
MINISTRY
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UNIQUE GIFTS
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SEASONS
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Unique Gifts:
We need to give
ourselves and others space to appreciate our unique giftedness. We’re not meant
to be copy and paste versions of each other. God designs one of a kind people
to benefit the Body of Christ. Some gifts we’re born with and others we receive
when we choose to follow Him. Occasionally, God will ask us to do something
we’re not gifted in. These assignments stretch us, and build our trust. We know
anything good that comes of it is all
because of Him!
I love the use of
the word “let” in the 1985 version of Romans 12:5-8 in the NIV, “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to us.
If a man’s gift is prophesying, let
him use it in accordance with his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it
is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is to
leadership, let him govern diligently;
if it is showing mercy, let him do
it cheerfully.” Too often we try to squeeze others or ourselves into a mold
made for someone else. That is not from God.
The following
scriptures reveal how valuable each of us is in God’s kingdom.
Everyone is different – 1 Cor. 7:7
Creative gifts serve a special purpose – Ex. 35:30 & 31:1-6
God is glorified through our uniqueness – 1 Cor. 10:31
The Holy Spirit bestows gifts for the common good – 1 Cor. 12:4-11
We use our gifts to serve others – 1 Pet. 4:9-11
The last margin we
need to allow for in ministry is…
Seasons of Life:
Some areas of
ministry will remain much the same over the years, while others are temporary
assignments. These change according to our season of life. For instance, I’ve
been a writer and teacher since I was in high school, but the way I’ve used
those gifts has changed significantly – from Bible study with my peers, to beginning
writer, to Director of Women’s Ministry, to homeschool mom, to author and
speaker, Sunday school teacher, and now writing and teaching in a variety of
venues. These are what I would call my lifelong gifts.
There is another
gift, however, which I assumed would be a lifelong calling that seems to be
winding down. And I have mixed feelings about it. I have played clarinet for
forty years, and been involved in music since I was young. However, because of
changing worship styles and changes in my life since moving to a new community,
I no longer have opportunities to play. I’m wondering if it’s time to let it
go. Part of me is sad, but another part is ready to make space for what God has
for me next.
The key is to obey as
He leads - both in and out of various opportunities. I trust He’ll provide the wisdom
and grace to let go when the time is right. This can be tricky; we tend to get
attached to things we’ve poured our passion and energy into over the years. But
styles change, our abilities wane, our energy is limited, and the needs of our
community shift. If we trust God for each new season, He will minister to us as
we minister to others.
There is a time and season for everything – Ecc. 3:1-8, 11
God has a proper time and procedure in mind – Ecc. 8:5-6
Drink deeply of His living water – Psa. 1:1-3
Fully commit yourself to God for a harvest – Gal. 6:8-10
Be prepared for every opportunity – 2 Tim 4:2
Final note:
Recently I returned from vacationing
at my sister’s where we had many conversations about margins. I sat down to
watch a sermon that taped while I was away, which turned out to be Andy
Stanley’s “Breathing Room” series. Another confirmation that this is God’s timely
word for us! If you’d like to learn more on this topic of margins from a
delightfully gifted, on-target pastor, here’s the link to his four part series:
http://northpoint.org/messages/breathing-room
This has been a really good series. I want to go back and take time to mull over the thoughts and the scriptures. Guess I need to create a margin of time to do that. The book on simplifying sounds good too. This business of protecting our space and time and life is an endless thing it seems. Thanks for putting the challenges out for us.
ReplyDeleteJoanne
My girlfriend and I have had discussions about the “why isn’t it ok that I’m me – and not like you?” feeling we get from others, and sometimes from ourselves. And others having agendas for us vs. our own agenda. These are coming back to me as I read this Margins series to really help as well.
ReplyDeleteLinda