A friend and I have lately discussed the importance of personal appearance. We agree, in order to move up the career ladder and social circles, there is a certain “look” expected. She thinks people who refuse to follow this norm are not interested in success. But I think it depends on what your main purpose is in life - to impress and make money, or to minister to a segment of society that might not otherwise come near.
Others are
drawn to or repelled by the way we look. Whether our look is clean-cut and
stylish, or dreadlocks and tie dyed, we have a circle of people we’re best able
to reach with the message of Christ.
Our friend
with dreadlocks past his shoulders found victory over alcohol addiction through
the power of God. He went to a faith-based rehab, where he relearned how to
live life. Just before he left the facility, a visiting teacher advised him not
to change his style just to fit in with other Christians.
“You will
reach far more people with the secret of recovery through Christ, if you keep
your distinctive look,” he said. “Those in that culture will be drawn to your
appearance. It will open doors with people who would never give someone like me
a second glance.” It has proven to true.
It makes me
think of Jesus. How clever of God to send His Son in the form of a baby. Babies
have the knack of fitting into any social circle. They don’t worry about
dressing for success or impressing anyone. Everyone was at ease in the presence
of God - the Shepherds, Simeon and Anna at the temple, and the wise men -
because baby Jesus was not too high, too low, too powerful, nor too fashionable
for any of them to approach.
The Jews expected
Him to come as a conquering king, to overthrow worldly powers. However, that
would have defeated God’s purpose to draw all men to himself. For who can be at
ease in the presence of a all powerful monarch, and pour out all their fears
and concerns? But a baby? A baby draws people in.
And as Jesus
grew into manhood, people continued to come near– rich, poor, young, old, powerful,
wretched, sinners, and seekers. All were drawn to His welcoming embrace.
Everyone except those who were jealous of His popularity and uncompromising
truth.
King Herod,
and many spiritual leaders of Jesus’ time did not welcome Him. They tried to
get rid of Him. He didn’t fit with their preconceived ideas of how the Son of God
should look and behave. Jesus just wouldn’t fit into their dress for success
code. His humility grated on them; His loving welcome to sinners, and healing
touch on those wracked with disease appalled them.
Today, many deem
God unapproachable. They say He is angry and demanding. They dismiss that scripture
says Jesus, “The Son is the image of the invisible God”
(Colossians 1:15, NIV). He didn’t
come to conquer, but to call us near so we could be forgiven, and have eternal
life.
If you’ve
been afraid to approach God, I invite you to come to the stable and meet the baby
we celebrate at Christmas. He came looking vulnerable and lovable, so we would not
be afraid to stay and hear what He came to say – I love you; I want you; I am
all you need.
This is exactly what we are facing in our part of the world. For us the assumption by some is that since we don't look, speak and act in accordance with their assumed "norms" for believer and "church-people" that we don't care and/or don't respect them or God. But like you said, the main purpose for is to connect with people who won't approach those who speak, act and look like they do. We are trying to provide another option that is familiar and approachable...yet, with a very different message and outlook on life.
ReplyDeleteThanks for you post.
Steve
This is absolutely my favorite one so far.
ReplyDeleteThank you Beth
Malea
Hi Beth,
ReplyDeleteYour blog strikes a resounding bell with me. I love that this man did not change his outward appearance and that he is able to reach others because of his integrity. I am aware that I have never 'fit the mold' of women in my age group. What we would call the 'In' Crowd. It's a brave choice to be different, buy never lonely or boring! Praise the Lord!
Loretta
Oh, yes. He is SO approachable. He invites me to come weak and heavy laden and find rest. He coaxes me to seek and find, knock and find the door opened, to ask and have my deepest desires granted. Who but our great God would pursue a rebellious and stubborn people down through the centuries and always keep covenant? Who but my Savior would give me everything, though I have nothing to offer Him but an unworthy self? He knows everything about me and loves me anyway. Hallelujah!
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